The 4 Types of Haters

We've all dealt with the haters. "haters", as we know them are success-haters: those who resent you for what you have achieved, or are trying to accomplish. It becomes obvious after a point: not all the haters are created equally. Different haters hate on you differently, for different reasons and thus must be handled differently. Before you can learn how to deal with attacks haters, you need to understand who you really are dealing with (yes, actually there are different types of haters ... haters are not all created equally ).

To make things simple, haters can usually be classified on the basis of two factors:

a) How strong will you stop the damage and put on their success or extinguish the flame of his ambition.
b) How effectively and cunning in their tactics actually achieve their intended purpose (which may involve you deter, halt, damaging your confidence or you do not feel guilty for succeeding ).

In other words, how much they want to stop and how effective they are actually on the way

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illustration shows the location of various haters within that range.
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Quadrant I - friend - Here, at the very bottom left corner of the spectrum, you will find your true friends and true support, your comrades in the struggle for getting what you want out of life. Anyone that you associate with on a regular basis (from a business or social point of view) should clearly be located in this quadrant. These people have absolutely no desire to harm you on your way to success (factor) and also should never have to demonstrate their skills (factor b ).

Quadrant II - incapable of hate - Here, in the upper left corner you will find the haters at the bottom of intelligence. Generally, these are individuals who have not completed their education, learning new skills to avoid at all costs (to keep your "cool") and love to talk smack to you. Usually they can only make a few very basic offense, which should have little deterrent effect on you because they tend to be so comically primitive. These haters are the easiest to deal with, and can provide relief ridiculous.

Quadrant III - Mama - Here, in the extreme lower right corner, you will find people who are close, but still want to dissuade you from doing what you set out to do to protect yourself from disappointment - aka keeping you "based". They have no desire to inflict harm on you or hinder you on your way to success and only want to save you from disappointment. As a result, they will use tricky techniques to stop you from continuing (which are usually disguised as something else, because they really care and do not want to hurt you ).

quadrant IV - Veteran hates - Here, in the upper right corner, you will find the most harmful haters, they are not to be trifled with. These are the "veteran" haters who have the desire and skills necessary for effective harm you in your path to success. They have spent a long time "hates" the go-getters and know what works and does not. These are people who are "existentially troubled" by witnessing the success and devoted their lives to bring a number of successful individuals. Of all the haters, they require the most skill to involved. These are the kinds of haters that truly successful people have had to deal with the most.

Now that you've begun to understand the four main types of "haters", you are one step closer to learning how to overcome them.